FCN cannot wave a magic wand and solve every problem, but we can share the burden, we can listen and understand and we can try to provide and bring in appropriate help and support. Here are some real stories and quotes from people who have been helped by FCN (names have been changed and stories compiled from elements of real cases to maintain confidentiality):
Ill health and farm paperwork…
A farmer called the FCN helpline. His wife had been ill with cancer and had been unable to keep the cattle records up-to-date, which had resulted in a penalty which he could not afford. He was worried about his business and also how he could keep food on the table for his family. An FCN volunteer visited and helped the farmer to get the records up-to-date. After liaising with the relevant authorities, the penalty was lifted. The Royal Agricultural Benevolent Institution (RABI) helped the family with some of their domestic expenditure to ease the pressure at a difficult time. The FCN volunteer continued to visit the family as the farmer’s wife recovered and their lives returned to normal.
“It is so good to have someone to talk to who understands and who I don’t owe money to and who doesn’t make me feel like it’s all my fault.”
Peter, Farmer, Yorkshire
“Before FCN visited John was showing signs of extreme stress. FCN’s sympathetic and practical attitude was just what he needed and now matters on the farm are much improved. I am most grateful for FCN’s input.”
Farm Vet, South Wales
“After my husband’s suicide FCN supported me and brought in further help from RABI and the Addington housing scheme. They are all brilliant and without them I would not be here.”
Gill, Farmer’s wife, Devon
“FCN has been a great help and friend, giving knowledgeable and sympathetic support, and always taking the time to talk”
Jim and Sue, Farmers, Northumberland
“When suffering from stress the doctor sent me to a counsellor and I got nowhere. FCN have caused a breakthrough! We still have some problems with the farm business partnership but FCN have acted as a mediator and helped the situation with their impartiality and sensitivity”
David, Farmer, Suffolk